I abhor nationalism. In theory, and in practice. Speaking personally – my nation is very close to my sense of identity. I am distressed when it is attacked. I dread losing to another nation in any sport. I do not feel proud of this. Indeed I dislike the emotions, which seem to me raw. animal and violent.
And clearly, nationalism simply divides. It has led to some of the grossest abandonments of love decency and humanity. Whether nationalism lite, such as the trolling by Scots Nats or the full fat versions of National Socialism or even the British Empire and slavery.
Why then do I identify so intensely with my “nation”? I wonder whether this relates to Bowlby’s attachment theory. I do know that I am not completely securely “attached”. I wonder if I and others like me then transfer their attachment from their primary caregiver (for me, my mother) to their nation?
I wonder then if there is a correlation between those who support nationalism and insecure personal attachment?