The wonderful part of being male is that its the anima that you are focussing on, integration being our goal. We are more familiar with our neighbour’s house – at least the outside of it, than our own – because that’s what we look out on. The world explodes into life and interest truly when you begin to be familiar with the inside of our neighbour’s houses. All that richness of life and connection. And the only way to see the other – from the inside – is with, through and in love. Jesus said – love your neighbour as yourself. Hindus say – Namaste or Namaskar – I bow to the divine in you/in us/that we share.
Our “self” is anyway surely only the path that we tread in this life. Like any path it’s habitual, a kind of morphic resonance through time. It’s only a path, not a universe in itself. It is a joy occasionally to glimpse its irrelevance except as a platform from which to perceive the divine majesty of existence.
We live through our connections. Our connecting. That is where God’s will works. God, the word existing beyond time.
Through the discovery and integration of other, we are unshackled. From space, from time, and from the smallness of our self.